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Articles, stories and advice from the Finding Therapy team, to help you find the right support.

How to support your child through school anxiety and EBSA
You might find yourself wondering if you’re being too soft or if the school is judging you. These worries are completely normal. EBSA impacts the whole family, but with the right understanding, you can start to move forward.

How to talk to school about your child's mental health
If your child seems fine at school but falls apart at home, or quietly withdraws while you sense something is wrong, you’re not imagining it. A calm, practical guide to helping school see the full picture.

How long does counselling take to work for a child?
A real answer rather than "it depends". What the research says about how long counselling takes to work for children and young people, what progress looks like early on, and when to review.

Does counselling help teenage social anxiety? A parent's guide
A calm, practical guide for UK parents: whether counselling helps a socially anxious teenager, what it can involve, and how to find a counsellor who fits.

When to speak to the GP about your child's mental health
How to tell ordinary teenage ups and downs from something that needs a professional look, when to book a GP appointment, and what to say so your child is heard.

What is 'burnout' in children and young people
Recovery from burnout is rarely tidy. You might see a rebound, a great day where your child seems like their old self, followed by a crash the next.

Does my child need counselling?
You don’t need to wait for a crisis to seek support. Counselling can help at any stage, whether a child is struggling with anxiety, low self-esteem, or just needs a space to work through their feelings.

Intrusive thoughts in children and teenagers
Almost every child and teenager has intrusive thoughts. Understand what they are, why they happen, and how to help your child feel calmer and more in control.

How to choose the right therapist for your child
The relationship between your child and their therapist matters more than the type of therapy. Here is how to find the right fit, and what to do if it’s not working.

CAMHS: a parent's guide
Facing a long CAMHS wait, or a referral that was turned down? This guide covers how to get your child’s needs heard, work with school, support them while you wait, and decide whether private therapy is worth considering.

Why is my child so unmotivated?
"Unmotivated" is rarely laziness. A guide to the real reasons a child or teenager loses motivation, how to tell which one you are seeing, and what genuinely helps.
