Our thoughts
Articles, stories and advice from the Finding Therapy team, to help you find the right support.

Why does my teenager struggle in winter? SAD, the winter blues and what helps
An evidence-based guide for parents of a teenager whose mood and energy dip in winter: the winter blues or SAD, what helps, and when to talk to the GP.

When your child can't sleep: anxiety, screens and the teenage body clock
Your child is lying awake, or can't get up in the morning, and worry seems to be part of it. How sleep and anxiety feed each other, what the research says about screens, and what helps.

My child has no friends: what's normal, what helps, and when to worry
An evidence-based guide for parents of a child or young person who seems lonely or has no friends: what is normal, what the research shows actually helps, and when it makes sense to seek support.

Starting secondary school: how long does it take to settle in?
Your child has started secondary school and it's not going well. Here is what's normal in the first few weeks, how to tell ordinary settling in from something that needs help, and what genuinely makes a difference.

Worried about your child at university: how parents can help
Your child has left home for university, and you’re worried. What the evidence actually says about university and mental health, why your child may not tell you they’re struggling, and what a parent can still do from a distance.

How to talk to school about your child's mental health
If your child seems fine at school but falls apart at home, or quietly withdraws while you sense something is wrong, you’re not imagining it. A calm, practical guide to helping school see the full picture.

How to support your child through school anxiety and EBSA
You might find yourself wondering if you’re being too soft or if the school is judging you. These worries are completely normal. This guide explains what’s really happening when a child can’t face school, and practical ways to support them at home and with the school.

How long does counselling take to work for a child?
A real answer rather than "it depends". What the research says about how long counselling takes to work for children and young people, what progress looks like early on, and when to review.

Does counselling help teenage social anxiety? A parent's guide
If your teenager avoids anything that puts them on the spot, you may be wondering whether counselling would help. What the evidence says, what sessions involve, and how to find a counsellor who fits.

When to speak to the GP about your child's mental health
How to tell ordinary teenage ups and downs from something that needs a professional look, when to book a GP appointment, and what to say so your child is heard.

What is burnout in children and young people?
Burnout in a child or young person is more than tiredness, and it isn’t something they can simply push through. What burnout looks like, why it builds up, and how to support your child through recovery.

Does my child need counselling?
You don’t need to wait for a crisis. How to tell a rough patch from something that needs support, what actually happens in counselling sessions, and how to raise the idea with your child.

Intrusive thoughts in children and teenagers
Almost every child and teenager has intrusive thoughts. Understand what they are, why they happen, and how to help your child feel calmer and more in control.

How to choose the right therapist for your child
The relationship between your child and their therapist matters more than the type of therapy. Here is how to find the right fit, and what to do if it’s not working.

CAMHS: a parent's guide
Facing a long CAMHS wait, or a referral that was turned down? This guide covers how to get your child’s needs heard, work with school, support them while you wait, and decide whether private therapy is worth considering.

Why is my child so unmotivated?
"Unmotivated" is rarely laziness. A guide to the real reasons a child or teenager loses motivation, how to tell which one you are seeing, and what genuinely helps.
